Hi,
1) It is possible to use Active-Active, but I recomend you use Active-Passive to see the load. If is not too hight I would use Active-Passive
2)You cannot use PPPOE or DHCP with HA, tha HA will not form
3) You can use VLAN with the ports, or you can split the internal switch of the FGT in different physical interfaces:
config system global
set internal-switch-mode interface
You have to disable first everything that is linked to the internal interface such as DHCP server configured, firewall rule, etc.
There is no patch for human stupidity...